The cost of following your heart .. conclusions from "Prem mhanje Prem mhanje Prem asata"

This comes from the movie "Prem mhanje Prem mhanje Prem asata " ...

There are people who follow their heart and do not follow the rules of the society, they do what their heart says..
I realised there is a cost attached to this.. and when u do something like this, u need to accept the cost that is attached with these decisions..

You cannot only accept the fun part and ignore or run away from the pain part..
This is shown clearly when the heroine runs into her lover and asks him to take her away from the society.. He handles it well and asks her to stay and fight rather than run away ...

The movie after interval shows all the conflicts that arise due to their decision.. It is at these times when your strength and resolve to get things working gets tested.. The society will not support you .. in fact for its very survival the society needs to oppose such things .. society will collapse if everybody start breaking its rules.. So not everybody in her family and relatives support her decision.. In fact she starts seeing herself as villain ...

Society has created certain rules .. these rules ensures it functions and grows .. these rules are very strong in case of marriage .. Our marriage needs to be acceptable by society... when you deviate from these rules, society tries to protect its foundation by attacking you and making you fall inline ... But there are always exceptions , people who follow their heart , some just take the fun part and break when the society attacks back, they are not strong enough, ...But there are some strong maniacs who sail through ,

At a much similar level , we face daily conflicts in mind , will to break free of job and follow the passion , but not everybody has the strength to face the fall outs of this decision and remain trapped between useless job and passion of their life ...