My friend and my guide

Every time I visit you, you teach me something new ..
A visit to you is like servicing my body, mind and soul ...
You are demanding but at the end you hug me with a smile and make me happy....
You have helped scale many challenges, handle my sorrow and seen me grow...

You are my friend , my guide --- Sinhagadh

The cost of following your heart .. conclusions from "Prem mhanje Prem mhanje Prem asata"

This comes from the movie "Prem mhanje Prem mhanje Prem asata " ...

There are people who follow their heart and do not follow the rules of the society, they do what their heart says..
I realised there is a cost attached to this.. and when u do something like this, u need to accept the cost that is attached with these decisions..

You cannot only accept the fun part and ignore or run away from the pain part..
This is shown clearly when the heroine runs into her lover and asks him to take her away from the society.. He handles it well and asks her to stay and fight rather than run away ...

The movie after interval shows all the conflicts that arise due to their decision.. It is at these times when your strength and resolve to get things working gets tested.. The society will not support you .. in fact for its very survival the society needs to oppose such things .. society will collapse if everybody start breaking its rules.. So not everybody in her family and relatives support her decision.. In fact she starts seeing herself as villain ...

Society has created certain rules .. these rules ensures it functions and grows .. these rules are very strong in case of marriage .. Our marriage needs to be acceptable by society... when you deviate from these rules, society tries to protect its foundation by attacking you and making you fall inline ... But there are always exceptions , people who follow their heart , some just take the fun part and break when the society attacks back, they are not strong enough, ...But there are some strong maniacs who sail through ,

At a much similar level , we face daily conflicts in mind , will to break free of job and follow the passion , but not everybody has the strength to face the fall outs of this decision and remain trapped between useless job and passion of their life ...

The difficulty of being good

You like a girl and open your heart to her .. She is betrayed by someone and doesn't entertain you
 ....The difficulty of being good.

You see a sad person and feel his sadness ... You cant focus on your work for some time .. The world says you are lazy...
 ...the difficulty of being good

You help a person in financial problems ... He betrays you and doesn't return the money.. You loose both a friend and the money ..
... The difficulty of being good

How much of curiosity is good curiosity ?

I saw a nat geo documentary on titanic exploration. It talked about a navy engineer who was determined to search titanic. He found it after years of hard work. However soon after it was found , titanic became a tourist spot, russian submarines would take people for a tour of titanic, slowly the titanic was being damaged by frequent visitors.

Man has a very curious nature to explore things around him. This curioisty takes him places and he discovers new things, but every new discovery gets spoiled when it gets exploited.
Titanic is just an example. In mountaineeering people explore new places , new routes. In some years that place gets filthy and spoilt. 

Look at what has happened to everest. 

This makes me think ...how much of curiosity is good curiosity ?