My friend and my guide

Every time I visit you, you teach me something new ..
A visit to you is like servicing my body, mind and soul ...
You are demanding but at the end you hug me with a smile and make me happy....
You have helped scale many challenges, handle my sorrow and seen me grow...

You are my friend , my guide --- Sinhagadh

The cost of following your heart .. conclusions from "Prem mhanje Prem mhanje Prem asata"

This comes from the movie "Prem mhanje Prem mhanje Prem asata " ...

There are people who follow their heart and do not follow the rules of the society, they do what their heart says..
I realised there is a cost attached to this.. and when u do something like this, u need to accept the cost that is attached with these decisions..

You cannot only accept the fun part and ignore or run away from the pain part..
This is shown clearly when the heroine runs into her lover and asks him to take her away from the society.. He handles it well and asks her to stay and fight rather than run away ...

The movie after interval shows all the conflicts that arise due to their decision.. It is at these times when your strength and resolve to get things working gets tested.. The society will not support you .. in fact for its very survival the society needs to oppose such things .. society will collapse if everybody start breaking its rules.. So not everybody in her family and relatives support her decision.. In fact she starts seeing herself as villain ...

Society has created certain rules .. these rules ensures it functions and grows .. these rules are very strong in case of marriage .. Our marriage needs to be acceptable by society... when you deviate from these rules, society tries to protect its foundation by attacking you and making you fall inline ... But there are always exceptions , people who follow their heart , some just take the fun part and break when the society attacks back, they are not strong enough, ...But there are some strong maniacs who sail through ,

At a much similar level , we face daily conflicts in mind , will to break free of job and follow the passion , but not everybody has the strength to face the fall outs of this decision and remain trapped between useless job and passion of their life ...

The difficulty of being good

You like a girl and open your heart to her .. She is betrayed by someone and doesn't entertain you
 ....The difficulty of being good.

You see a sad person and feel his sadness ... You cant focus on your work for some time .. The world says you are lazy...
 ...the difficulty of being good

You help a person in financial problems ... He betrays you and doesn't return the money.. You loose both a friend and the money ..
... The difficulty of being good

How much of curiosity is good curiosity ?

I saw a nat geo documentary on titanic exploration. It talked about a navy engineer who was determined to search titanic. He found it after years of hard work. However soon after it was found , titanic became a tourist spot, russian submarines would take people for a tour of titanic, slowly the titanic was being damaged by frequent visitors.

Man has a very curious nature to explore things around him. This curioisty takes him places and he discovers new things, but every new discovery gets spoiled when it gets exploited.
Titanic is just an example. In mountaineeering people explore new places , new routes. In some years that place gets filthy and spoilt. 

Look at what has happened to everest. 

This makes me think ...how much of curiosity is good curiosity ?

All apples in this world are green

Once on a trek I saw an apple tree, it had green apples.
I went further and saw another apple tree, it also green apples..
I therefore concluded that all apples in this world are green... !!!

 

You are .....

You are
            in my dreams
            in the morning sun rise
            in the sunset
            in the fresh air that blows around me
            in my grief
            in my happiness
           
You are
            my fire
            my thirst

My heart cant stop beating for you
My brain cant stop thinking about you

I just cant stop myself from missing you

Why we avoid grief ?

Why we avoid grief ?

Life gives us both grief and happiness in same amounts.

We enjoy happiness to the fullest ... 

But in many people I don't see the same reaction for grief.

When in grief we run away, listen to cheer up songs, blame it on fate, avoid it , get busy doing something so we don't have to face it..

Why don't we embrace grief the same way we embrace happiness .. with both arms open ?

I want to handle it more bravely and accept it as part of life ...

The surprise gift

Yesterday when I went to a shopping mall , the cash vendor told me that I had won a surprise gift.

The surprise gift was a huge box.

On seeing the huge box I was very excited I thought of all the things I wanted in my life and expected that it would be there in the box.

I opened the box slowly layer by layer.
As I opened it, it turned out to be smaller and smaller, my hopes and dreams diminishing with each layer.

Finally it was a very small piece of dairy milk chocolate.

Now ...

Should I be angry that the shopping mall cheated me and just stop shopping  ?


Should I blame myself for expecting too much and be happy to get a free dairy milk ?

Compare my gift with others who got an IPAD ?

Go shopping again expecting for more ?

Also , should the dairy milk be unhappy for being in the box and get a disappointed look ?

Is human a flaw in nature's design ?

I had a query on human evolution. 

God has designed a perfect eco-system where everything is so well connected with each other.

It’s almost a perfect system. He created such a beautiful world and then created man, someone who in turn is destroying his design.

Don’t you think GOD’s design of earth is flawed?

How could he ruin the perfect design by creating a human ?

Also there is so much of difference in intelligence between man and other species. Man is far too more powerful than other species and doesn't have any competition.

It might look boring question.. if so ignore it